Santa Barbara Escapade

In the midst of getting my Brazilian photos organized, I took the chance to get the Barbara pictures sorted too. That's Santa Barbara, really- a nice coastal town about 2-3 hours drive away from Los Angeles. It reminded me a lot of Temecula, but with more tourists I guess.

The people that went with me are folks closest to me in my company. 2 from China (YW & Chao), and 1 from Pakistan (Tal). I am starting to see a trend that there's really something that bonds Asians together. I don't like to say "Culture" because that's a hodgepodge of many things but until I can find a more eloquent way to describe it, let's just use it as it is.

I'm the "Do-er" in the group - pushing for things to happen. Like weekend trips, outings, birthday celebrations, you-name-it. Many times all of us have good intentions and we think about things, but nothing really happens until you DO it. Maybe that's why Nike's tagline is so successful. :p

So the occasion for the trip was ... nothing much - just felt like it was time for all of us to get-together after I had spent months on my CFA, hosting people and all. But I guess there WAS something special -> It was Chao's birthday - giving me the perfectly legit case for blocking time off everyone's very busy calendar.

We went to museums, lookout points, wineries, the famous Stearns Wharf pier, had dinner in the middle of the ocean with the gorgeous sunset across the horizon. It was one of those times where I sigh - wishing loved ones was with me, but also appreciating that soaking in the beauty was one of the reasons why I'm in the USA for. To be excited, challenged, marveled and pushed to grow.

We eventually ended up in my house with a CHEESECAKE FACTORY ICECREAM CHEESECAKE! OOOOH LAAA LAAAA...the round cake was only 10-15cm wide at max but was worth every penny of the USD$40 we spent on it! :)
Sweet times don't always last; but they're there for you to savor while it does.

Crazy Black Friday!

Updates**: Photos from New York (Oct 29) and Brazil (1 Nov) have been updated in posts below. Do click on links above or scroll down to view. :)
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It is THE time of the year for the BEST shopping in USA. Black Friday- the day after Thanksgiving. I was feeling really tragic initially when I overheard someone say this in passing on the train "Food & Love are the most important things, the rest will sort themselves out." It saddened me that I was going to spend Thanksgiving alone this year without any "love" (friends/ family) and without "food" (turkey/pumpkin pie etc.)

But then, in my melancholy, I stumbled upon countless websites (pls click) - testimony to the fact that Black Friday online sales has begun!! One of the cool things I discovered is this Livescribe Pulse pen- & I am very tempted to buy it over any iPhones n iTouches that I was targeting... :) It would really help save lots of time at work in my truckloads of meetings! I think this Black Friday is probably going to move even a hermit shopper like myself to splurge some dollars!

Pot of Gratitude

It's one of those days that I spent 3 hours cooking... and of all things I chose to cook, it was 绿豆汤！ It reminds me so much of home. :)

But being practical me, I would not have spent 3 hours cooking for myself (just isn't 'productive' from a Return on Investment/ Time standpoint). Instead, my partnership with the stove was for my landlord (Hagop), his wife (Maria) and little princess (Salpi) who's graduated from milk formula into adult food fare. :)

We recently celebrated both Princessita (she's 1!) and Hagop's birthday (which was REALLY cool):

This family means so much to me - it would not be an exaggeration to say I'm loving LA more and more because of them. I am so grateful to have them as my surrogate family here. They have showered me with so much love, warmth, kindness and sweetness of humanity that I will always feel indebted to them. :) For the first time in my life, I feel like if anything does happen to me in the USA (touch wood!), someone would actually know. As what Uncle B always says, "人气 is very important when you are living overseas... make sure you live with someone." I think I've just stumbled upon the perfect solution.

The Unexpected- Brazilian Adventure!

Brazil has turned out to be infinitely more challenging, weather-crimpling and expensive than was originally expected. I hope the rest of the week works out better...

// So it's 2 weeks since I got back from Brazil. While I was in the experience, I don't remember enjoying it quite as much as the photos (below) seem to depict it; but in retrospect it was a great trip. It would have been worth the visit even to get a feel of what the Brazilian economy commands. What more with it winning the title to host the 2016 Olympics and having my sis with me.



This has been a trip I longed for since college days. For my student exchange, grad trip, overseas job posting...None eventually materialized. So I made a promise to myself when I took up my current job offer that I would visit Brazil and Peru before I get posted out of the USA. Feels good acting on that, finally.

Desperation drove me to seek out Couchsurfers who reassured me that it was OK traveling in Brazil alone... Gratefully so, my sis decided to join in and so started our 2nd Latin American Adventure together (after Cuba in 2007) :)


I see Brazil is a land of wonder and great diversity. I got to witness for myself the immense economic potential of this great country and the population tailwind many companies would die to have a slide of. But it made me wonder whether this self-sufficiency and lack of English proficiency could impede enjoyment for the many who will soon flock to this country - as do all places who host the Olympics experience.

Nonetheless, Brazilians are a warm-hearted, fun-loving bunch - so smiles, kisses and hugs could well be the best language of all.


In planning a spontaneous travel, things sometimes don't get planned till the last minute. Traveling is the best litmus test for relationships- they say. My sister and I almost didn't get to go to the Iguassu falls but thankfully, we managed to.

Lesson learned: "The power of money is when it can be used to solve problems". It echos another view I have always held: "是钱的问题就不是问题”.
In a surprisingly short amount of time (2days), we covered 3 countries! - Brazil, Argentina and Paraguay! They reminded me of the Golden Triangle where I visited 3 countries in 2 days too! - Myanmar/ Burma, Thailand and Laos. I love visiting developing countries- I feel that there's much character to the place and people. Having said that, I do hope to visit Eastern Europe/ Europe next spring. :)

Rainbows- they've always meant something EXTRA special to me. Because of a unique person I met. They remind me of covenants. So it was really awesome to be seeing rainbows e-v-e-r-y-w-h-e-r-e. :) It was actually a magical feeling- I felt like a Carebear riding rainbows.

Iguassu Falls is one of the 7 natural wonders of the world, and very legitimately so. It consists of 275 falls along 2.7 km of the Iguassu River. (275 leh...no joke!) . The Devil's Throat (Garganta del Diablo), a U-shaped cataract, is the most impressive of all, and marks the border between Argentina and Brazil. (Two thirds of the falls are within Argentine territory.)

Foi (my sister) wanted to take a tour but we soon figured (& happily so!) that we could manage the trip by ourselves. In doing so, we saved some cash and pocketed a great deal of adventures + the thrill of surprises - which to me, is what traveling is about. To be excited, to explore, to be challenged.


The Brazilian side of the falls (pictures below) was more panoramic (felt like a larger version of Niagara Falls from the USA side) but we really had most fun on the Argentinian side (photos above with the rainbows) where we got REALLY wet. Of course, we elected to be wet by riding the boat INTO the falls; but we also got wet walking along certain trails which brought us right NEXT to the thundering waters. :)

Our safari-river-waterfall adventure ended before we even knew it. After 2 days, it was time to get back to THE reason why we went to Brazil - Rio de Janeiro.

We did not get to join in the world famous Carnaval this year (that happens in Feb/Mar), but we got a feel of how the celebrations must be like. The Brazilians at a local samba school we went to (turned out to be the TOP samba school this year) simply lived and breathed passion and energy.

I was also reminded of my Samba Masala friends in college, and the experience we've had grooving to Brazilian beats. Those have been great memories. It's a pity friends don't always stay as friends when deeper emotions come into the picture.

We took advantage of the blue skies and bright sun the next earliest day we could to cover the sights of Rio. (Our first 2 days had been fairly tragic/unproductive with nasty weather)

And...no trip to Rio would be complete without a visit to Cristo (Christ!) with His outstretched arms welcoming weary immigrants in Brazil's early days.

We also went to this amazing artistic steps (Escadaria Selarón) - featuring the decades of hardwork of Selarón. He covered 250 stairs measuring 125m with over 2000 tiles collected from over 60 countries around the world. He asked for Singapore's tile. I wonder if we even have any. Maybe I can draw him one. :)

Of the 2000 tiles, 300-odd are hand painted by Selarón depicting a pregnant African woman. Selarón said it is a "Personal problem from my past". No sooner than the stairway is 'finished', Selarón starts work on another section, constantly changing it so that it is an ever evolving piece of art. No wonder it has found its way into advertisements, MTVs, documentaries etc. :p
Selaron's story is pretty cool - He was born in Chile but traveled, lived and worked as a painter and sculptor in over 50 countries before arriving in Rio. Many times, his phone was cut off and he was threatened to be evicted from his house due to being unable to afford the living costs. He sold many paintings and accepted donations from locals and travelers to continue his work. Selarón has claimed to have sold over 25,000 portraits, all featuring the same pregnant woman which mostly funded his work. (We bought 3 of his portraits!)

Our 1-day exploration of Rio's famous sites culminated in soaking in the sunset at the Sugar Loaf (Pao de Acucar). It was a surreal experience seeing how the mountain, waters and city came together in a dazzling dance as the night brought twinkling starlight.

Another reason why Rio has intrigued me for years is because it has always been cited as the classic case of favelas (slums)/ urban sprawl and the income disparity between the rich and poor. Given that the favelas are mostly operated by drug lords, we were advised to explore the favelas only on a group tour. In my opinion, I might opt not to do that the next time because the favelas actually are safer than the "outside" world as drug lords want favelas to be crime-free/ safe so that it does not give the police reasons to enter the favelas.

We then went to explore Centro- the CBD of Rio, and ventured into the CCBB Centro Cultural Banco de Brazil - which was an arts center that felt like our Esplanade minus the waterfront. There, we came across this wish-making booth that seemed to be quite popular in Brazil. You wear bands of colored ribbons around your wrist (like friendship bands back home) and when they are worn down/ break loose, your wish would supposedly come true.

We spent our last night in Brazil partying at Lapa - where the famous Arcos de Lapa (Lapa Arches) stands proudly illuminated against the darkness that conceals pickpocketers, drug peddlers and other petty criminals. I don't have any photos of that here as we only brought Foi's camera along (so in case one gets mugged, the other has a back-up camera).

Our last day was spent exploring one of the obvious gems of Rio- the beaches. Copacabana and Ipanema were the only 2 beaches we went to but they were enough proof of the beach culture that was pervasive in Cariocas and foreigners alike. Sis had a good time shooting (photos wise...what were you thinking...?) the ladies in dental floss bikinis... :pPpPp

2 trips to 2 of my "to-go" places (Brazil & Peru), visiting 2 world wonders (Iguassu Falls & Machu Picchu) in 2 weeks (1 week each) within 2 months (Nov & Dec) with 2 of my sisters. Double trouble sometimes give > double the fun! ^_^

Ola Brazil!

Just arrived in Rio de Janeiro! - a flight that took 15 hours from New York. (& 48 hours for my poor sister) ^_^ Can't wait to check out more places with our CS ambassador Jordan! :-) Will be here for the next week or so - might not get much chance to blog but will do asap!

E ai Brazil!

New York - growing on me

Am in the Big Apple right now, and am actually liking it for the first time in my life.

I remembered the first time I set foot in the Land of Dreams. I hadn't even turned 21. That feeling of gazing at the behemoth skycrapers, taking in air that blended exhaust and pretzels, being grateful to Life/ God/ My parents..it's hard to forget. A 20 year old country bumpkin in the (then) heart of the financial world - an experience that got a Marketing major to pursue Finance the very next semester.

But as time went by, I felt like there was not much to New York. The hype and glitz that people associated so much with was only on 1 street (42nd street/ Times Square) - and that was definitely not representative of the poverty and crime that lurked in many corners of the city. So I didn't like it. I felt that the city lacked character.

Now that I'm back again, 5 years later, I can begin to appreciate the beauty of New York. Maybe that's also the beauty of perspectives and time. I learned again that it's not a place that makes me tick, but the people that makes the place beat.

This time round, I met my cousin who has moved to New York in pursuit of his dreams as a hairstylist. I helped him move into his nest in SoHo, and convinced him to allow me to paint his room black (we converted that into a walk-in wardrobe). :)


But what was perhaps most significant in my liking of New York was that I got to hang out almost daily with my old team from my previous company who happened to be here for business too. How surreal right? :) Just 1 year ago, I was part of this team evaluating leveraged loan opportunities in the USA... Now I'm the outsider.

But it's almost refreshing and really great to be able to hangout with them as friends and buddies, not as colleagues and superiors. Life is indeed queer with its twists and turns, as many of us sometimes learn.

Happy 1 year to me!

Aug 1, 2007 - started my full-time professional work life, and
Aug 1, 2008 - tendered my resignation and begun serving 2 months' notice
Sept 11, 2008 - finished serving notice after having worked 1 year, 1 month, 1 day
Sept 12, 2008 - arrived in USA
Oct 13, 2008 - obtained social security # and started work in the USA
Oct 14, 2009 - happy one year! (wow...fast...!)

Dawned upon me in a casual conversation today (Oct 14) that it's been 1 year since I worked in the States. Wow, it's hardly believable that time really went by so fast! 1 more year to go...and then what?

Grrrrrowwwwwling like a grouchy grinch!

I am seldom upset-upset but today I got really pissed by uber bad service (bad = 2 chinese waitresses staring at u eat from 3 steps away to pressure u to eat fast n get out of their restaurant, failing to serve my shrimp appetiser on my set menu n claiming that it doesn't exist (!!!), giving me melted ice cream & serving it before I even had my main course) at a crappy japanese restaurant...omg, it was horrendously lousy food that's worse than take-out, and at 8x the price! -_-'''



That aside, I was totally flabbergasted by the new Kindle. I bought mine just under 2 months ago without having used it and now the new one boasts international downloads (!!!) ...i.e. you will be able to download books even when you're out of the USA. Talk about the woes of technology... I honestly don't hanker after the latest stuff, but this function is -really- important to me given how I'll be bouncing from one country to the next every 4 months. :((

Alone but not lonely

While recruiting at Brown & Wesleyan over the past 2 days, much of the questions I have received had to do with "What is the greatest challenge of joining this global rotation program?" My response has to do with 2 things: 1. A love for uncertainty (not just threshold, because that would collapse at some point given all the stress) and 2. Emotional resilience.

Perhaps one of the greatest things about living alone in the USA in the past year is managing loneliness. Many times, I remind myself that I'm alone but not lonely. But now, I'm sipping Cinnamon + mint expresso in a cafe with a pretty cheesecake brownie (sinful indulgences) by Middletown (a total 鸟不生蛋的地方) and feeling like it's pure torture that I have no one to share my experiences with. This is fundamentally different from an overseas internship or posting where you often have co-workers, or friends or even a 4 year overseas education where there's college mates and room mates.

Can I truly be alone and not lonely? I'm not confident the answer is Yes all of the times. Not good, not bad - just an observation through this journey of life.

Niagara - Thundering Waters

Niagara - the indian name for "Thundering Waters" - today, I heard it before I even saw it. It has been a power-packed 2 days where I managed to do the below: (A, B, C, D) in the past 2 days. (PY darling!! - wished u were still in Boston...!!) I'm in D, Providence now and will be going to E, Connecticut before spending the weekend in F (New York) as part of the recruiting team at Brown and Wesleyan University, respectively..

I took the chance to go to 1000 Islands, which has 1875 islands that dot Lake Ontario and St. Lawrence River encompassing communities on both sides of the US and Canada border. The 1000 islands were formed almost 12,000 years ago at the end of the last ice age. This is my first trip where I didn't read and plan in advance and it's actually pretty cathartic after months of slogging away on my company review - PetSmart.

In all honesty, I was never uber interested in seeing Niagara Falls given how it's relatively inaccessible (9 hours drive from Boston/ NYC) + I was gg to be alone + the crazy logistics of trying to do it in 2 days from Los Angeles + I didn't think there's anything -really- spectacular about waterfalls..But I'm so grateful the timings worked out and I went! - Maybe there's really some truth in the Law of Numbers: 14million tourists annually can't be wrong!

Niagara Falls was actually rather spectacular - great muscular bands of water arch over the cliff like liquid glass. There are dozens of taller waterfalls in the world, but in terms of sheer volume Niagara Falls are unbeatable: more than a million bathtubs of water plummet over the edge every second.



I took the famous Maid of the Mist boat where I had the opportunity to sail right up the base of all three falls, with the mist spraying up in my face. I also climbed a path that brought me right up to the side of the falls and got completely drenched.



Am reading the following book, from which I'm deriving much joy. Gosh, I really have some introspective thinking to do - particularly after how the vacation at Niagara made me realize humans aren't built to spend 8 hours a day for 20 years stuck at a desk...